Her beauty is rare.

For my mama:

Her beauty isn’t one that needs to blend in, nor does it need to stand out. It’s a beauty that she needs to believe, one that she never wants to doubt. A beauty that can’t be seen with your eyes, but can be felt in your soul. A beauty that doesn’t need confirmation or approval, for her to feel whole. Self love is the essence, wrapped in confidence and strength, and God is her focus, from the first commandment, to the tenth. So if you ever come across a beauty so courageous and so rare, know that she is more valuable than any diamond that you will ever come to wear.

LY Aotea Tyrell❤

Brother, PLEASE!

textgram_1507770064One thing that really irks me with some guys is this –

They always talking bout they want a lady in the streets, but a freak in the bed, but they want to be a freak in the bed, in the shed, and every where else chillin with Fred and Ted paying strippers for some head or hitting anything thats spreads! 👀

Brother PLEASE!😏

If you want to attract a lady in the streets and a freak in sheets, you better be a gentlemen in the streets and a beast in the bed.

If you want a spiritual sister, you better be a spiritual brother.

If you want “wifey material” make sure you ain’t no “fabricated husband”.

You want a girl that can cook like your mum, ask your mum to teach you how to cook.

Don’t ask for that kind of woman, if you don’t possess the qualities to attract and keep that kind of woman.

Don’t make us feel inadequate as women, when you don’t even qualify to be a man.

But back to original question on how to find a Spiritual Sister?

Spiritual sisters are so invested in their journey with God, that you have to go to Him to get through to her.

Nothings more attractive to us than a God-fearing man, a faithful lover and a great father 🙌 everything else is a bonus!

I’m worth it.

Stop bending over backwards for guys that can’t be upfront with you.

Don’t drop everything in a heartbeat for a guy that won’t lift you up in a heartbreak.

Why you tripping over a guy whose chasing other girls?

You don’t need to get into his bed, to get ahead.

Don’t leave a good man for a guy that wants a “bad bitch”.

I’m tired of seeing women being disrespected and unappreciated by some men.

No amount of years in a relationship is worth your tears. No amount of sex is worth the pain. No amount of money is worth your dignity. No amount of man is worth your woman!

We deserve to be loved right, we deserve to be held tight. We deserve someone to be there for us in the day and through the night.

Don’t waste your time questioning is he worth all the pain and shame he’s putting you through.

Naaaaw sis, are YOU worth all the pain and shame he’s putting you through!

Stop sitting on the fence of self doubt and start standing up on the roof of self love!

We are worth it ✊

Making Christianity, my reality.


“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.” – Romans 12:2.


When I first started this journey, I was nervous about sharing God’s word and the work He has done in my life. I don’t know the bible off by heart or even considered intelligent to my peers, all I know is what God has done for me and my life experiences. So I have my days where I feel unworthy, I sometimes worry about what has been said about me or how others perceive me, but the more I get to know Jesus and read the bible, I realize it’s not about pleasing others, it’s not even about me. It’s about God’s will and what He has planned for my life.

For awhile now I’ve been trying to get into a habit of starting and ending my days with Christ. It doesn’t always happen and every day isn’t perfect, but every day is a chance to progress and start over. So I like to start my mornings with a prayer, I try to read scriptures in my down time, watch sermons and podcast online before I go to bed and end my day with a prayer.

I can’t tell you how much my life has changed since I’ve started devoting my thoughts and time on Jesus and His promise! He has lifted a lot of burdens and guilt I carried around with shame and worry for so long, things that were holding me back from reaching my true potential, being the best version of myself. I’m so happy to say that God is faithful and true. I’m not loving him because my life is perfect, but because his love is perfect. It’s real and He’s real. Everybody’s saying God is dead yet my spirits being fed, my soul is being nourished and my heart is being blessed.

I’m not worried about the non- believers and the haters, I’m here to share the work God is doing in my life and with my life. I want to inspire others to start their own journeys and to slowly make steps to making Christianity, their reality.

Exercise, Energize & Moisterize.


“Do not let your adorning be the outward adorning of braiding the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine clothing. But let it be the hidden nature of the heart, that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God.” – 1 Peter 3:3-4.

Sitting at 28 years old, I am yet to have met a woman that doesn’t want to be beautiful. When I say beautiful, I don’t just mean the outer shell, the vessel that carries our true essence, but beautiful in the way we love, the way we speak, and the way we treat others. The real heart and true core of our souls.

Does that mean there aren’t any women out there who don’t care about being beautiful? I don’t know, because I can only speak on the women I have met or encountered in my short yet interesting journey through life. But even those women, are only a small portion of the billions of women in this world. So while reading this, bare in mind that this is about my experience with women, not yours, not hers, but mine.

Too many of our women are falling into the traps of today’s culture. A culture that goes against what our Heavenly Father would want for his daughters. A culture that has allowed the artificial and the superficial define what’s hot and what’s not.

So what you’re about to read are my 3 beauty tips that I encourage all women to think about or apply as “make-up” in their life.

Exercise:

Most women these days are always on the hunt for the easiest and fastest ways to lose weight. Whether it be drinking the latest detox teas & eating paleo diets, to waist trainers and wraps. Sadly some turn to extreme measures like liposuction and bulimia.

But exercising is not only good for you physically, it’s also vital to help sustain your health mentally and emotionally. And that’s where “energize” comes in.

Energize:

Having the right energy is essential for your well being. If your energy is negative, then you’ll attract negative energy, but if your energy is positive, then you attract positive energy. Sounds so simple, yet so many people don’t get it.

We all have different ways of maintaining our energy levels. Some people like to meditate, others visit psychiatrist but I like to pray.

Praying is the confidence we have in appproaching God, and knowing that whatever we ask of Him, it’s taken care of, only if it’s according to His will. So it gives me peace to know that whenever something doesn’t work out, I know God has other plans for me. I don’t waste no more time thinking of the shoulda, woulda, coulda’s, instead I focus on everything that’s going right in my life. So don’t be angry at God when things don’t go your way or ask Him to do this for you then you’ll do this for Him. It’s important to remember that God gives us love with benefits, so we shouldn’t serve Him with conditions.

Moisterize:

As someone who has had eczema her whole life, I think this tip is mainly for myself plus it rhymed lol but I did want to touch on the importance of being able to love the skin you’re in. I myself am not a big make up fan, and I’m not saying that anyone that wears make up is ugly, but I feel I look better without it. I’m not conceited, I just prefer my natural look to wearing make up. And I’m sorry to say this, but everybody is starting to look the same to me. The eyebrows, the whiteness under the eyes. We’re losing our originality, our independance in the way we look. I have family members and friends who can’t leave the house without make up and it makes me sad because they’re the most gorgeous women I know! Make up is great to enhance our features, but it’s used as an armour for some to hide behind. Embrace your flaws ladies! It’s so liberating to love yourself with no conditions! Don’t wait until you’ve lost 10 kgs or when you’ve got your face beat. Love yourself the way you want to be loved. Don’t wait for validation or praise from those around you, know that God made you and He makes no mistakes. Dress yourself with dignity and strength and have no fear for the future, for you are fearfully and wonderfully made.

She’s royal.

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“Now if we are children, then we are heirs – heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory.” – Romans 8:17.


I truly believe, every women that walks on this earth, should be treated like a queen. Whether you’re my family member, my friend, my enemy or a stranger, I genuinely feel we all deserve love, appreciation and respect from those around us, but unfortunately that’s not how this world operates.

Sadly there are still men (and women) out there who continue to abuse us, mistreat us, deceive us and never believe in us. Therefore creating doubt, insecurities, bitterness, and many other weaknesses of the mind and bruising of the soul.

But what I want you all to know is, you are the daughter of the most High!

Whether you believe in Him or not, we are part of one body, we belong to His royal family. We don’t need confirmation or validation from any man or women to know that we are royal. For our Heavenly Father Jehovah, is the King of all kings. He is the ruler of earth and the creator of mankind. He reigns over all nations and sits on His holy throne, waiting for His children to return home, from doing His work here on earth.

Jesus said, “Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in me. In my Father’s house are many rooms; if it were not so, I would have told you. I am going there to prepare a place for you.”  –John 14:1-2

There is a place for you in the Kingdom of Heaven! We only need to believe and receive that Jesus Christ is our Lord and savior. Whatever you’re going through, use your story to give God all the glory. So whenever life gets you down, let our Father hold you up! When people knock you down, let your sisters fix your crown. We are in this together!

We are a family and we are royal.

We are daughters of the most high, sisters through Christ and queens in real life.

You my sister, are royal!

Weed your garden sister.

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Christian women are like flowers in a garden trying to grow and bloom in The “Son” light. But in order for us to grow, we must remember to remove the weeds that are stopping our growth.
Weeds can be invasive and are often very noticeable, with different textures, colors and growth habits. Be careful not to let weeds get too close to you, as they can overtake your garden in a single growing season, leaving it looking sparse and unattractive.
So remember ladies – Weed your gardens and pray everyday, and you’ll grow, grow, grow.